The Jersey Shore nightlife scene is known for its DJs and beachside dance parties. But every so often, everyone needs an evening out with friends that has a vibe that’s a bit more low-key. Everyone loves a space that is yap-friendly, which The Jersey Shore Girl has decided is a bar with good drinks + background music that is low enough that you don’t have to scream, “What?” over and over again in the middle of your friend’s story. Keep reading for a list of bars down the Jersey Shore that are vibey for a low-key night out.
AP Rooftop | 1200 Ocean Avenue North, Asbury Park
AP Rooftop has such a pretty ambiance that it’s challenging to decide on just one aesthetic choice that makes this rooftop a complete vibe. JSG loves the fireplaces, but the hanging greenery and panoramic ocean views are also nice. Plus, the extensive cocktail list feels like an exclusive experience that will keep the vibes high all night.
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The Columns | 601 Ocean Avenue North, Avon-By-The-Sea
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The Columns is a restaurant + club located in Avon-By-The-Sea. It’s a Jersey Shore favorite for a night out because of its live music lineup. The Columns is part of this list because the Victorian mansion sets a vibe right from the start, and the ocean view is a welcoming addition to setting a chill environment.
Ember + Eagle | 2000 Lowther Drive, Eatontown
Ember and Eagle is a steakhouse open to members and non-members at Suneagles Golf Club inside Tillinghouse Golf Club. It makes the list of JSG’s vibey bars because arriving feels like stepping inside a luxurious mansion — one that is a good choice for a trendy night out for cocktails. JSG recommends visiting the Parlor Bar, which has a classical, rounded bar area and a consistent live music schedule.
The Grand Tavern | 1105 6th Avenue, Neptune
The Grand Tavern, beloved by locals for its comforting food options and inventive cocktails, is in Neptune. The Grand Tavern is typically dimly lit, which sets a calming environment for ordering one of its glamour shots, like the PB&J (picture peanut-butter washed bourbon and mixed berry). JSG recommends snagging a res, as it tends to get crowded on the weekends.
Lana | 32 Laird Street, Long Branch
Lana is an upscale spot for wine by the glass or bottle, conveniently located in Pier Village. Lana has all the features of a trendy night out, like its Nespresso Martini, often paired with one of its carefully crafted dishes, like a shareable charcuterie board. Lana has an elegant ambiance, DJs + bands + loungeable areas, making this a refined yet cozy location.
Lovesick | 530 Cookman Avenue, Asbury Park
Lovesick is a cute wine bar located in downtown Asbury Park. It has an Insta-ready backdrop for a girl’s night out with its purple-painted brick walls, multi-colored light fixtures over the bar, and a neon pink heart at the door entrance. Lovesick often has DJs spinning vinyl records that set a groovy vibe while customers sip on one of its 75 wines or taste an option from its small bites menu. FYI: There is a cute + loungey spot for a group right by the entrance of this wine bar — JSG recommends arriving early to snag it.
Park Social Lounge | 1311 NJ-35, Neptune City
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Park Social is a restaurant, lounge, + bar located in Neptune City. It has a vintage glam aesthetic with an old Hollywood feel, fitting for an evening out with friends. There are elevated food options, and the cocktails are as chic as the gold and velvet details that make this a pretty bar option.
Proving Ground Waterfront Dining | 56 Shrewsbury Avenue, Highlands
Proving Ground is a good option for a vibey night with waterfront views + fire pits. Proving Ground specializes in always having the newest craft beers and cocktails that are a fun addition to a relaxed evening. Proving Ground also frequently has different events and local live music to create a calm environment.
The Rum Runner | 816 Ocean Avenue, Sea Bright
The Rum Runner is a seafood restaurant in Sea Bright. It has a riverfront deck that creates a coastal vibe for a cocktail with a pretty view. JSG loves Wednesdays at The Rum Runner because it’s wine + cheese night (which is a vibe all in itself) — customers can get a bottle of wine + cheese plate for $40.
The St. Laurent Social Club Lounge | 408 7th Avenue, Asbury Park
The St. Laurent Social Lounge is a classic-style bar inside the boutique hotel, The St. Laurent, in Asbury Park. The space mimics the casual glamour of Asbury Park’s history as being known as the city by the sea. The bartenders at the lounge are mixologists who carefully curate balanced drinks for sipping at the bar or to enjoy at one of its cute lounge areas.
Watermark | 800 Ocean Avenue, Second Floor, Asbury Park
Watermark is a sleek, sprawling indoor and outdoor rooftop bar with ocean views directly on Asbury Park’s boardwalk. Watermark has so many cocktail options that the menu reads like a book, and these trendy drinks are typically sipped while sitting on one of the comfortable lounge seats. The fireplaces also set a comforting vibe, creating a pretty backdrop for catching up with friends.
Whitechapel Projects | 15 2nd Avenue, Long Branch
The Whitechapel Projects is a neighborhood spot with an industrial chic aesthetic. It has food, drinks, events, and live music that set an inclusive vibe. The brick walls, string lights, and hanging plants create an artsy feel for an evening of chatting and spending an eclectic evening by the shore.
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